Hello James, My father died recently and I feel I never resolved so many issues, how do I get over resentment and anger? Michael
Dear Michael, it’s very hard to correct things with the person you had a problem with after they passed unless they come through a medium maybe. But when you father passed his last thought were not anger to you or anyone. It was not all the bad things that had happened it was all the good things that he did and the people he met. Years later if he was in front of you now, he would say sorry but Michael that was me, that’s who I am. As he left the earth plane it was not anger or resentment toward you, it was time wasted words not said and with your Dad not enough fun. Don’t have regrets but do something for a charity that may help others survive what he could not.
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