I was born on 26/10/84 in Scunthorpe and I have been lucky in love over the past couple of years. There is a man who I am attracted to, but I have no idea whether he feels the same, and I cannot ask him because of the situation we are both in. His first name initial is 'S'.

I would be extremely grateful for any help whatsoever. Thank you.

Melissa, Goole

Dear Melissa,

I suspect there are others to think about within this arrangement if you do decide to go ahead with this. Think before you go ahead with anything and whose lives it will be affecting.