I'm 20 years old and my uncle died two years ago, he was the first family person who I knew to have died. And it has made me consider a lot of questions. What happens to him?

Can he see me and my family now? If so, does he see EVERYTHING or pop in and out of everybody's lives?

If you can contact him, can he give my mum and family a message? What does he say?

And can he come and visit me? I would like to see a ghost/spirit to have faith and believe life after death.

Carl, Wirral

Dear Carl,

Yes he can see you, yes he does pop in and out of your lives, and no they don't see everything, because they are not with you and your family every minute of the day.

They have work to do to and people to see, and frankly it could be rather boring just sitting watching you and your family day in day out.

But they are aware of what's going on in your life and they respect your privacy. You don't need to see a ghost to believe in the spirit world, they come to you in many different ways.

A smell of flowers, a gentle touch on your face, a feeling of love and contentment.

You have faith or you would not of contacted me. Finally, what is the reason why I have just be shown pillars from a bed - was your mum looked after by your uncle or your granddad?

Also if you want something so badly like a job, put everything into it and don't give up to you get what you want .With the support that you have from your family and your cheek, you will become a tv presenter - which I know you really want.