My mum has died and I want to know if she is ok and if she still loves me and why she had to go at an early age. Sarah Bunce, Selby

Hi Sarah, firstly don’t feel guilty at all about not doing something for your mum while she was on the earth plane we can not be there for everyone 100% of the time no matter how we try.

Your mum has no regrets even if we do when we are left behind. The only regret she may have is not saying I love you more or showing it as she says you would not feel the way you do about her death.

You did everything you could and she loves you for everything before and after her passing. Deep down you know she loved you, do you need to ask.