Dear James, I am mostly optimistic and happy thankfully, my problem is my wife works and I spend a lot of time alone and don’t do much. Will my life pick up and I job turn up for me. Alan

Dear Alan, you’re ill so you should be concerned with getting well. I am aware you have been ill for while so your wife has had to work. She is not complaining and you know she does not anyway. Its her nature she does not think of you any differently than before you got ill, that’s just the way she is. Just try and make the load lighter for her by trying. If you do anything she will be happy you smile it makes her happy. You have a one in a million so don’t worry or abuse her when you feel down as she is 100% in love with you and is in it for the long road.