My nan died nearly 3 years ago and now my family has fell apart, my family held a very tenuous relationship before she died due to events when my grandad died! Also i would so love to know that my nan is proud of me and that she has been reunited with her

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Hi Kathy, do you know the spirit world are not really concerned with the bickering that goes on in families they can't do anything about it as they would have to sort everyone out one by one and it would take to long. Your Nan is just shaking her head to the situations and saying nothing has changed and nothing will change it just the way you're all made. I also feel she is glad to be out of it and feel she is with a lot of ladies on the otherside just looking in wondering what's going to happen next a bit like a soap opera. She is happy and content and looks about 30 years old so I feel she is happy but can not see any men around her just ladies who you would not cross.

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