Dear James, I am a 44-year-old woman who lost her mother at the age of 7.

I was the 7th child out of 10 in my family. Can you tell me if my mother is watching over me and if she has anything to say to me, or my father, Antonio? Thank you.

Hi Sonia, He needs to keep his mouth shut.

I don't know why but that what's been said to me. If only we could have had more time - she has been back as she has been pulling you away from something.

I feel you have felt her around you as she is coming through to me as a very warm person and when she does come through it is the feeling of heat on your arm.

Don't worry she is proud of you.