Hi there, my dad died on the 16/06/2005 at 5.56 am I was with him when he died, I travelled from Scotland to Doncaster the night I was told his time was close.

Can you tell me if he knew that I was here beside him and that I miss him and loved him.

My mum says that she has seen him sitting on the chair, in the living room he has no legs and is sitting with his eyes closed.

She has tried to talk to him but he is not answering its as though he is asleep. Will my dad visit me?

Hi Dawn what a lovely person you are I can feel your energy coming off the e-mail you are a very caring person and so was and is your father- a lovely man.

He may be asleep but he knows what's going on. I feel he loved been home he was very content. Sleeping was a time he could relax his mind though and I feel you mum would agree that when he was asleep that's when he was quiet and looked different than when he was awake.

I don't know if you dad was a bit of a stress head. But he does look different been asleep. And this is the image that he want to portray to you all that he is different now relaxed happy with out any pain.

He even has some more movement in his fingers and he is got some cheese biscuit next to him as well.

Don't know if he like lemonade but I can also taste that as well in my mouth. Don't worry that feel you never made it in time or that he never knew you were there. He saw you all before, during and after.