Hello James. I lost my father in law just over a month ago. I have been having strange feelings through my body (like a vibration/tingling) and I feel that maybe he is near me.

My wife was, and still is devastated and keeps asking me why her dad is not trying to contact her instead.

I'm not saying it is his spirit, but it certainly feels odd. We would love to know if he is watching over us - and the grandchildren he adored.

Hi Nick Some of the feelings you have when spirits are linking in with you are feeling sick, headaches, light headedness and faint static electricity around you. And of coarse seeing them and been touched by them.

Give it time and when the time is right for him to come back he will.

Everyone wants the person to come back straight away but if we sat down and said, "ok dad I am ready", we would not be. It would scare us, no matter how much we loved them. So they wait.

They let you see a small light, or smell the perfume or aftershave they wore. You may hear their voice or see them in a dream or catch a shoe they wore near the TV.

Till the day they feel is right and they just appear. But it can be very gradual.

Your wife is heart broken he does not want to hurt her in any way.