Dear James My dad passed away some time ago. At first I used to sense him around me a lot, but for the past year I don't seem to feel him around any more.

I have been going through quite a low and lonely time and have feelings for someone so I have asked my dad for help with this, but I don't think he would agree that the man in question is right for me.
Is dad still around me and what does he think of the situation and is he happy where he is now?

Hi Lisa, your dad now understands that everyone has to make their own mistakes. He cannot stop you doing what you're doing but you need to think - is this situation right for you?

If you are considering your dads feelings you must be unhappy with what is going on. Don't use your dad to end this relationship, think about yourself.

As for whether your dad has been with you, sometimes they just stand back and let you run your own life. Whenever you think of him he is around and this can be in the most unlikely place, when there is nothing to activate the memory of your dad.