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• Mum has been dead for 23 years. Never heard or felt anything from her. Never got over it. Saw a psychic a couple of months ago and she said mum had had such a terrible life that she did not want to stop and speak of it and she was too busy in the spiri

  
  Dear Angela, timing is the main thing I feel you can have a problem with when communicating with the spirit world. Someone can ring me up and ask for a reading and I can say yes that’s great but they can ring a couple of days later and say is it ok for you do a reading for my friend as well but then it could be a problem. Everyone even the skeptic believes that the spirit world has nothing better to do than sit around waiting for us to contact them.
  
  It just does not work out like that so when you try to they don’t come through so people call you a fake or you only get a small message, which could be from anyone. Let’s say your mother is an angel and she is helping someone pass over in Spain say helping them leave the body and I know this maybe hard rather than coming to you with a big message she is going to pick helping the person in Spain. I hope you understand what I am trying to say. You are really agitated about something aren’t you and it’s stressing you out. It seems everything is going wrong; you’re rushing about not getting anywhere. And you’re aching and worrying stuff. Frustration, in all parts of your life as well. But you have always been the same but at the moment it’s really affecting you. Children are bossing you about and you just want to say to say. “You Know What I Have Had Enough”! Well there’s the message.
  
  I think if you relax because god knows you’re like your mum there’s millions on this side with us to do the job you do and millions on the otherside to do the job for her to have a break. You both need it. read more

• My Mum Died at the beginning of last month and there is so much i need to ask her and find if she has passed over. See, i don’t think she has as she lives in my bathroom tiles. ,Ben, West Yorkshire

  Hi Ben when we lose a parent we do go into some kind of shut down and over the weeks months even years are mind starts to release the grief we are holding. When my father passed over, a couple of months after I was at a house party. I was stood in the back garden just looking at the stars when I saw a shooting star. My mind just went to my dad.
  
  As I looked down he was stood between the garden I was in and the next door he then started jumping back and forth. Now in retrospect I could have imagined this all - some would say I had drunk too much. But as I think about it now I feel it was quite funny to see and it would have been his sense of humor. What I want you to do from now on is not look for you mum in the tiles. I want you to say if she appears again mum I know your there and I know you love me but I find this very strange. Please don’t appear here again. Now your mother will love you so much she will stop doing this. You could ask her to come to you in dreams instead of the tiles or come to you in a message like a bird tapping on the window. Just to let you know she is there and she is okay. But tell her to stop appearing in the tiles and she will.
  
  Even though I truly believe in the spirit world I went to see a councilor after a death of someone really close to me. I knew they were ok but I missed their touch I missed being able to talk to them face to face whenever I wanted. I missed their phone calls, laughs, voice and smile. Talking it through with someone who just sat and listened helped me get over all the things I missed. I know this helped me so much and made me a lot happier. You could start by telling someone close to you about what you have been seeing they will understand, as they will have loved your mother too and they will love to talk about her to you. read more

• Are there animals in the spirit world? Or is it just humans? Lisa, Middlewich

  
  Hi Lisa, The smallest animal I have seen is a hamster the biggest was an elephant. It appeared in my small bedroom where I did my readings years ago. I was more interested how an elephant could fit in such a small room. I wrote two stories which were published in America in a book about a dog that was haunting a house which I was called into investigate and a cat that came back to thank its owner for looking after it after it had been run over. My own dog is psychic and often sees stuff over my shoulder while I am doing these e-mails. read more

• I went to "Say goodbye" to my Nan in the hospital shortly before she past away. so other family members could go in to see her, my sister, brother in law, and myself went & sat in the corridor. After we had been there for about ten mins, my cousin came r

  
  Hi Terri, your Nan believed in the spirit world and I feel just before she left the earth plane a gentleman with two small dogs came in the room and she wanted you to see them.
  
  Your Nan was really happy to go in the end and I feel as the spirits came into the room she got a quick burst of energy, which was used to call you in, but then it went.
  
  That was then, this is now. I am drawn to a lady that is showing me her as a young girl and a bit of a torment she was. What’s this about your hair and it won’t stay in place and have you been getting your hair pulled. I have got a really big smell of hairspray so either you’re a hairdresser or your Nan is or she is saying cover your hair with hair spray. Too many times people think of the end of someone’s life when they should try and think of the happiness they may have had. Her legs are ok as well now. And she has finished that book - it was rubbish. You have to believe that your Nan is coming to me as a very young lady who was a very hard worker in her time but loved all the family even the funny ones if you know what I mean. read more

• My son was murdered 21months ago is he alright and is he being looked after in the spirit world?, Jackie

  
  Hi Jackie, he is being looked after by a mother figure and he is cheeky. I can smell a very nice smell around me and you have been wondering is it him as you have had this also. I can see playing cards smell petrol and food are everything around me which is strange. I really believe he has been around you and you are doing something to try and contact him apart from contacting me. You have woken up in the night and felt as though someone is holding your hand. Why do I feel like a baby is in the spirit world was he an only child I just keep hearing I am a baby. He is very strong spirit and gets the impression you can talk a lot and there are loads around you the same. There seems to be crowds at home with you and crowds with him in the next blue room. read more

• Hi, I would just love to hear from anyone in spirit who is close to me, thanks. Christina, Timperley

  
  Hi Christina, Terry send their love and I feel it’s a man as I can smell Brillcream. I feel like two members of your family passed over and you really want a message from them. You were considered a little angel by them and brought them a lot of happiness. One is a gentleman, which feels like a granddad I am drawn to his nose not because it big as it small he also has brown eyes. This gentleman seems to have a funny sense of humor but really looked upto you. I want to say are like his favorite grandchild although I feel he had more he give me the impression he had one. He had some very funny habits about food and drinks something to do with Milk. The lady he is with seems older it could well be his mother. She seems to be very old indicating she was old when she passed and had problems with her legs. Did this gentleman pass before his mother?
  
  Christina you have to stop giving so much. What I mean is you seem to be there for lots of people but its not reciprocated. Allow people to help you; you do too much for yourself when there are people out there that want to help. Its time you become number one for a change and it going to happen you are going to find yourself in the limelight and it’s taken long enough for this to happen. Don’t be embarrassed by it you need it and disserve it. read more

• Will my life change regarding my present responsibilities?, Sheila, Runcorn

  
  Dear Sheila, it’s been out of your control for so long you would not know what to do if you had freedom now. You have had your hands tied for so long its giving me a headache thinking about what’s going on but you’re a survivor and I like you summertime’s sit down and think ok what else are you going to throw at me. Well its stops now, I know you have not had many dreams in the past but now think about what you would like as it going to happen. You are going to have a release of the pressure very quickly and it’s needed. No one will win or lose from this pressure in fact it will hurt but once it’s done its over with.
  I feel there are some concerns over a older man who is causing jealousy, you have to look after so many people and loads rely on you and its just the way you are. All I can say is believe that you are a good person and loads need you to be strong even though all you want to do is rely on someone but you know and I know there is not two of you in the world. Be brave and stick to your guns. read more

• my family have had a really tough time for the last 3 years and things dont seem to be getting better i just wondered if the future will get any brighter as things just seem to be stuck at the moment? Ann Marie, Flixton

  
  Dear Ann Marie, don’t dwell on the past I know its seems like life keeps going around and around and its left you lifeless but I don feel you have turned a corner reason been you have had the time to write this e-mail don’t think you would have had time or even bothered. You have been getting into bed at night completely tired out waking up thinking I don’t want another day make the night last longer. You are shattered but still look good, you put the smile on face and here goes another day. I feel like there is some hope for you now. There are two children around you who have a real bright future they have and can have the world. They seem like they have big idea’s not saying it will work out for them all the time but they have the strength to make anything happen. I have to say they have the gift of the gab that’s the only polite way I can say it.
  
  What you have to do Ann Marie is turn your back on the past you have to do this. I am not saying forget it you will carry it with you for all time but for you to go forward the past has to be the past now. Let your hair down and let it grow longer as well I really lovely gentleman just said she looked better with longer hair and blackcurrant juice not together just what I can taste as I link with this man. read more

• Can you be of help to link up with my nana who has always been in contact with me but i can't decode her mission. appears friendly always but i'll like to know how she is and if there is any message for me?, Ganiyat, Warrington

  
  Dear Ganiyat, this lady does not take any prisoners she wont be messed with she know what she wants and will not be stopped to get to where she want to be. She seems to be about 31 years old that how she is coming to me at that age it must have been a time when she was at her busiest and strongest. I do feel from that age although she was strong she did start been ill from that age. I know you’re going to say she lived a very long life but in this day and age I feel she would have had stress. I do feel like she wore the trousers but could have done more if she was two people. Hope you understand that bit.
  I know you’re proud of your family but this lady you should be really proud of hair she is a work horse. She will never stop now she has a new lease of life. read more

• Is it not true that the in the bible it says you should never try and contact the dead? Pat , Warrington

  
  Dear Pat here’s something I found on the web:
  
  "There shall not be found among you [any one] that maketh his son or his daughter to pass through the fire, [or] that useth divination [or] an observer of times, or an enchanter, or a witch, Or a charmer, or a consulter with familiar spirits, or a wizard, or a necromancer. For all that do these things [are] an abomination unto the LORD: and because of these abominations the LORD thy God doth drive them out from before thee.
  Deuteronomy 18:10 (KJV)"
  
  I was brought up as a Roman catholic and although I did see things at an early age I still remained worshiping God in a Catholic Church. When I decided to develop any abilities I had I did not start hating God or the church, I was supposed to be now in league with the devil if anything it made me believe even more. Nothing make’s me stray from the belief of Jesus Christ. When the film came out about the Da Vinci code and how it ripped the bible to bits. I still never strayed I thought to myself the night before Jesus was crucified he was held by someone who loved him with friend who loved him. I know I could be burnt alive by the people on the earth plane for what I have written hear and my beliefs. But I know if I have done anything wrong here I will be forgiven, not burn in hell God is a loving God a parent allowing the children to have a life. How many parents out there stand by their children when they do wrong why God would not turn his /her back on anyone if and when we do wrong. read more

• do you do personal face to face readings, or do you know ant really good meduims in warrington? Daryl, Warrington

  Dear Daryl I do, do Personal reading my personal web site is linked to this page with contact details. read more

• I want to know what my friend David wanted to tell me before he passed and is it possible for me to have a private sitting with you? , Mary, Warrington

  Dear Mary, Firstly I feel you have had in your mind for a long time to move and at this moment in time it seems closer but your afraid to do so. You seem stuck to take the steps to the dreams but they are closer now than ever before. You do want to run away as you feel your fed up of fighting but you have caused a lot of the trouble you have had in the past due to been stubborn and proud. Something is going on were you need to stand back now and leave well alone. I know there are people who have got away with thing are so they think, well watch how this all back fires. Smoking STOP!. read more

• I have lost out on love again. Is there any sign that I will find love soon? , P in Sale

  Dear P, I wonder is that short for something. I think you have gone in to situations with your eyes closed in the past and that has caused a number of problem feel you not thought about your self only other people and now you left contemplating what is going to happen with my life not only your love life either. I also feel that you have a opinion of how a relationship should be but it has never happened for you. I know you have been hurt by but I think and feel its because of the pressure you put on yourself to have a perfect relationship and its never going to happen. If you ask someone who is celebrating their diamond wedding, I can guarantee they could name each other’s faults and they would be a long list. But they will say compromise is what you need to have a perfect relationship. Have a think about what you want in life now and then say I want it I am going to have it. But don’t put past faults onto your new partner read more

• my son died 3 yrs ago this month, and i blame myself. Does he? , Peggy

  Dear Peggy, the answer to that question will always be no! I think you have gone through this over and over again thinking could I have done more. Why was I not there sooner, if only? You could tear yourself up till the day you pass over and when you do your son will say. What the hell did you do it for? It was my life you had nothing to blame yourself for you did your best and in the end that’s all we can do. I don’t think money could have helped either. read more

• What are the initials of my soul mate? Ann

  Hi Ann if you read any spiritualist books on spirit communication you will find that the first contact you are supposed to make or communicate with is your guide. Hundreds of people ask me the question who is my guide and out of the hundreds I have only ever gave the answer about three time not because I did not know but their guides were that strong that I had to say something about them. All I will say to you is this; the spirit that you believe is your guide is not. read more

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