Should I be with him? (From Warrington Guardian)

Should I be with him?

Hi James, can you tell me if the relationship I am in right now is right. One minute I feel like it's really what I want, the next I'm not sure.

We are meant to be moving in together soon. I'm wondering if it's the right thing to do or if I don't I maybe sorry.

We have had a lot of problems but always sort them out. What do you think?

Joanne, Merseyside

Dear Joanne, That relationship's for you. If they are right you will sort things out, but what you have to realise is that you are not the same. You are both different.

Even when you first met you had similar likes and dislikes. With time you change your taste, which can cause problems if you let it.

Just admit things change. Accept it now. In the future if you and him see both sides of the argument, you will end up making the situation better.

Take the person's argument or opinion but offer yours as well and let them see how you feel. This goes for all your relationships. A nan says 'hi'.